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Posted: Aug 6, 2008 in Opinions

Now, this blog may seem a bit wanting of attention but really it is not. I would love some feedback about my blog. Yes, the oh so dangerous questions I have could lead to humiliation of whopping magnitudes, good thing that my blog title is pointlesblog, right? So here are the questions I would love answers to.

1. Why do you dedicated readers keep coming back

2. What keeps you from leaving feedback?

a) Fear that others might think I am stupid

b) Not really interested in the topics

c) The topics are over my head

d) Some other reason: _____________________________

3. What is helpful? What is not helpful about this blog?

4. What topics if any would you like to see some rants or on

Now I cannot promise that I will get to all of the requests but then again, not many usually respond to my blogs. So perhaps it will be easier than I think. That said, please know that this is a safe place to open up. You can always leave an anonymous post as well. I want this to be a place of mutual learning and exploration. If you, like me long for the greener grasses of the new kingdom of God, then let’s spit it out and  begin talking with excitement about kingdom things. God bless and I really hope to hear from you all.


On complaining.

Why complain? More importantly how do you deal with complaining without complaining? Moreover, what is complaining?

I have just begun a 40 day fast from unnecessary talk, which I have failed miserably at already. But tomorrow is a new day and the next minute is a new minute so we will see how God works powerfully in our lives. I look forward to it.

So here is MY answer to these questions. It seems to me that complaining is nothing more than an expression of our inability to control things that were never in our control to begin with. Complaining is nothing more than another form of GOSSIP because in complaining about anything people are often attached to such complaints and it serves to raise self up over the situation without having the need to take any responsible action toward a solution. It easily tosses the responsibility off on someone else. Now mind you I am not talking about true issues that need resolving. I am speaking of the types of complaints that restate the obvious time and time again without any productive solution to offer. I am speaking of the possibility that perhaps I, with God’s help, can tame the tongue with thanksgiving and move to a life where I am less concerned about having things in the way I think I should get them or believe I am owed.

So here is my hope for myself. It is my goal to come to the table with solutions, a willingness to be a part of the solution and a tongue that is bit not loose. It is my intention to realize that sometimes constructive criticism is beneficial but it is not constructive beyond a single mention, especially where I have no alternative to offer. Yes, I do want my concerns to be heard but dwelling on them seems to only create within me a very American mentality of I am owed something.

That said, I also understand that, I will fail miserably in this regard. IN such a case, it is good to remember that our complaints are a reflection of our estrangement from our true home. In the kingdom we will have no need to complain for we will have more than we could ever imagine. God’s rule will be all sufficient and our lives will be sustained by his glory. So in the discontentment of our present circumstance, may we realize that God is using our estrangement as a way to keep us longing for vaster things. Lord come quickly for I am weak and a wretch of a man.

Today I write with a heavy but joyful heart. Today, I am officially without a grandparent from my side of the family. While Heatherly and I still have one grandmother and one grandfather, in the past two week we have lost my dad’s dad (Dale McDaniel) and my mom’s mom (Sarah Woodruff). We have also lost my cousin Grant Hinds to early and in a tragic way. Death has been ever present. We mourn, we weep and yet for each we are grateful and excited for their new and eternal life. For these, time is no more, only eternity.

I received and email today, which was later confirmed as false by the one who sent it but nonetheless raises an interesting question. Here is the rumor and the debunking of that rumor.

In short, the rumor has people up in arms about the fact that our government has removed the “In God We Trust” from the new dollar coins. Well, first off this appears to be true but reveals that it is actually placed on the side. This brings up the second point, which is that placing it on the side is the first step to removing it all together. Perhaps, this is true. My response would be a gentle, “So What?”

There, I said it. Forgive my cynicism of such notions that this issue even has a slight connection to the mission of the church. Here is my take. First, the irony of “In God We Trust” is thick when you consider, the luxury cars, large homes and huge trusts we set up for our retirement. Sure this is the land of opportunity but opportunity somehow seems to land most often in the lap of those who already have the money to spend. We place more belief in self sustainment than we do in God’s sustenance. “Give us this day our daily bread” seems more a reference to dough from our stocks and interests check than yeast for that day. Meanwhile, the poor child goes without a place to lay his head or food to calm his hunger pains. (more…)

And when this happens, when we allow freedom to ring, when we let it ring from every village and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up that day when all of God’s children, black men and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual, “Free at last! free at last! thank God Almighty, we are free at last!”

– Martin Luther King, JR.

You know when I hear the “I have a dream” and the “Let freedom ring section of MLK, JR. famous speech I am moved deeply by the drive that calls humanity to humility before their (more…)

What a holiday! I am glad it’s over. Anyone else glad it’s over?

Sure, it was a blessing to see old friends and family but the occasion seems often too contrived and lacking in authenticity. Don’t get me wrong, not everyone gives for selfish or contrived reasons. Many who give year around love the excuse to give even more and do so with genuine and without expectation of receiving hearts. To you, I applaud and thank you. Moreover, I deeply love my family, I love seeing old friends and I love being around those that I only see rarely and sometimes even once a year, to learn about how God has worked over the last year, to rejoice in the success and to suffer with those who are recovering from difficult times in life. To be sure, there is a truly genuine side to our gathering but…

…then comes the gift giving. Perhaps, I am cynical because when it comes to gift giving I don’t like to give because of a season, Personally, I like to give when it is unexpected, truly from a gracious stance and selfless (though the debate of such viability is long). Why does it take birthdays, Valentines, anniversaries, or insert any other special occasion to show our love and appreciation.

Now, please don’t mistake my cynicism for a lack of appreciation. To be sure, I felt greatly honored this Christmas to receive from the servants at VineLife a grandiose gift of the infamous iPhone. I was blown away and completely not expecting that our group would rally together, take up a collection and then buy me a gift of gratitude. I was truly humbled by the gesture.

Yet, at the same time as I reflected on the moment, I was deeply saddened that gifts of equal magnitude could not be shared by the true workers of VineLife like; Logan, Katie and last but definitely not least my wife. Oh and I don’t want forget the whole slew of people who give countless hours to setup and tear down of our Portable Church (4-5 hours). Many of which went from not even attending a church, to full blown ministry of set up and tear down 4-5 hours per week. Hence, my deep humility in receiving such an awesome and unexpected gift.

That said, however, my point is furthered, are we really so self focused, busy and/or self indulgent that we must have days, if not, entire weeks and months set up to focus on others. Like the unexpected nature of the gift (iPhone or other) given in surprise and without an expectation of return, can we begin to think more often of ways to share the graciously given gifts we have received from the Father. Is this not the life Christians are called to?

My hope and my dream for my family, both church and biological, is that we may grow into giving hearts that seek to give out of gracious and humble hearts. To give out of season is to give without expectation, with love, with thoughtfulness and contrived only by the overwhelming sense of humility resulting in a recognition of God’s display of affection through the gift of His Son. May we stand out in holiness through our gift giving and proclaim the Good News until he comes.

The Golden Compass Controversy

Posted: Dec 7, 2007 in Opinions

There are several great articles out there today about this movie that give another perspective on this movie based on the trilogy by J.K. Rowling that spark in me an interest to see what this movie is all about. Here are those articles. Article 1 by Bill Donahue on the Catholic League website, Article 2 by Jeffrey Weiss in Dallas Morning News, Article 3 put out by the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops. I also have this email DallasNews Religion Sneak Peek_ Friday Dec 07, 2007.pdf that is a overview of the DMN article.

I found Weiss arguments quite compelling here is an excerpt from the email article:

Beyond that: Mr. Donohue’s protests — along with others — have only built interest in the film and the books. Was it worth it? Compare this with the furor about the Da Vinci Code, an awful but awfully popular book that really was an attack on the real Catholic Church. Maybe the popularity of the book made the protests worth the effort. On the other hand, recall the huge debate about The Passion of the Christ . A film that neither sparked massive anti-Semitism nor a wave of spiritual revival. Yahoo says that the controversy has apparently boosted searches for “atheism” and “atheism definition” on its search engine. So the argument may have had the opposite effect that Mr. Donohue hoped.Here’s what the official movie review distributed by the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops has to say about Compass: “To the extent, moreover, that Lyra and her allies are taking a stand on behalf of free will in opposition to the coercive force of the Magisterium, they are of course acting entirely in harmony with Catholic teaching. The heroism and self-sacrifice that they demonstrate provide appropriate moral lessons for viewers.”So is Mr. Donohue a dope about The Golden Compass? What do you think? 

  Interestingly, not all of the Catholic groups that review movies agree with Donahue. This excerpt is perhaps a more interesting thought on dealing with movies that are controversial in nature.

Is Pullman trying to undermine anyone’s belief in God? Leaving the books aside, and focusing on what has ended up on-screen, the script can reasonably be interpreted in the broadest sense as an appeal against the abuse of political power.  Will seeing this film inspire teens to read the books, which many have found problematic? Rather than banning the movie or books, parents might instead take the opportunity to talk through any thorny philosophical issues with their teens.  The religious themes of the later books may be more prominent in the follow-up films which Weitz has vowed will be less watered down. For now, this film — altered, as it is, from its source material — rates as intelligent and well-crafted entertainment.     

The film contains intense but bloodless fantasy violence, anti-clerical subtext, standard genre occult elements, a character born out of wedlock and a whiskey-guzzling bear. The USCCB Office for Film & Broadcasting classification is A-II — adults and adolescents. The Motion Picture Association of America rating is PG-13 — parents strongly cautioned. Some material may be inappropriate for children under 13. 

I think the notion that we can rally the Christian troops to not go see a movie is such as this is a false notion in this day and age. While it may affect some to stay home, ultimately bad publicity is still publicity, if not the best kind. Saying no in a society built around me, for many, pushes to do the very opposite. I find myself in that camp, the one that wants to go see what all the hubbub is about.

To be honest, I haven’t decided if I want to see it or if I would allow my older children to see it. It seems to me that protecting our children and thinking that somehow this mode of reasoning, even if it is from a rebellious and atheistic bent, isn’t already pervasive in our children already. It seems that movies that serve as controversial open up opportunities to discuss their own lifestyles, their own choices and to learn more about who they are as we listen to their working out of controversial issues they are already facing. Whatever choice you make, the ideals and controversies that this movie may or may not be promoting must be seen as real threats to our families anyway. As such, opening the door to conversations that uncover this with our children and families can only serve to promote better values in our homes. God bless you as you decide what’s best for your family.